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Wednesday, June 30, 2004

the waiting...

I had not much to do today except for sum house cleaning as 2mrw we are going for a one nite stay at DowntownEast Chalet..until now i have not yet doing the packings..hmm..maybe will wait for hubby later and do it together..but first he had said earlier dat he gonna do sumthings for his colleague to print out a documents and gonna send it to him later after work..and in return he will get to borrow his digicam..if not there will be no camera for our outings...:(
had asked earlier to borrow from her sister but his sister was going to use the camera also so no chance had to borrow from hubby colleague.
ooopss..got to go now...;)




Tuesday, June 29, 2004

the birthday of my new nephew Abdul Hadil Ashraf...

just after i finished writing my blog yesterday was this commotion outside my house...took a peek and saw my neighbours(corner) and her sons standing infront of my neighbour nxt door...wat happened? i closed the door back and looked for the keys...i opened back the door and stepped outside..Mak Mah my neighbour who stay at the corner told me tat Cik Onah had a fall..OMG! his son had been trying to help but how can he cuz the gate is locked and the keys was nowhere to be seen..he tried talked out the poor old woman to face us as she sitting on the floor back-faced us...she was yelling in pain..aduiii..poor her she couldnt even moved not even her face...
without more hesitation and waiting i decided to call for ambulance..boy!quickly get in my house and reached for my h/p and dialled 995!I was trembling like crazy tat i couldnt speak properly to explain the situation to the officer on the phone...i was like having this dilemma wether am i doing the right thing by calling the ambulance..or should i call the police cuz all i need is sumbody to break open the door lock..the officer told me to calm down and managed to understand the situation and told me tat he gonna send an ambulance ang a firemen to work it out...gave the address and they promised to come as soon as possible...
My hubby came back and i couldnt believe tat it was past 12:30am in the morning...according to Mak Mah the old woman had fallen since 12 juz now when they heard her shouting fm inside of her house...i'm surprised tat i'm living nxt door but couldnt hear anything...
when the ambulance arrive they quickly came up and waited outside as the firemen had not arrive yet..it took few minutes later tat finally they arrive..hmmm...quite a bunch of them...they used this erkk..not sure wat it was and together they break the door lock..and the medics quickly dashed in and they asked to open the lights on..well this another problem..electricity had been cut off since 2 mths ago..the husband of this old woman actually had the heart to leave behind a sickful old wife alone without lights only sum candles and battery-operated radio..i've tried to talk wif that uncle earlier last week cuz i couldnt stand it anymore..they had this young girl named Nabilah whom they took care since she was a baby..a pampered spoilt-brat who grew up and becomes so unfillial..i've heard so many times she shouted at this old woman..there were times i stepped out and told her not to do this to her mom as she is already old(nyanyuk)and get her to understand why she must at least take care of her..like i said a spoilt-brat a*****e she never listens..at times she din even comes back home..according to the uncle she was staying with her auntie (her mom's elder sister) who was the one pampering Nabilah now..tagging her everywhere she go..spending money on Nabilah....how could she?din she ever thot wat if sumthing bad happen to her sister?How could she make Nabilah stay with her wen the poor sister who is sick stayed home alone...Manusia Manusia..or do they deserve to be called that?
and the uncle as husband why cnt he be firm..?why cnt he to at least negotiate with the PUB to settle the bills by instalments..all these sure can be arranged instead he too pampered that spoilt-brat giving her trendy handphones..paying her h/p bills..and she is only 14 years old and no longer schooling...now I'm really sick of all these!!!
@#$*&^$$&**@#%@&!
Today the good thing was i received call from didie early in the morning..felt happy finally get to hear her..she told baby was out at midnight...told her why she din call earlier and she said she had C-sect...so shhocked i couldnt say anything but ask her to tell me everything...my sympathy went all to her..felt so deeply in my heart till i couldnt cry for her...:( told her i'll be coming later..meanwhile i did sum updates on pkh and blog on the arrival of her baby..she requested tat anyway...
woke hubby up and in hour we are ready to go...took bus straight to KK..reached there before eleven...saw didie lying motionless on the bed..kesian dia tk bleh gerak...she immediately ask me to get her baby cuz she din get to see and hold the baby yet...i went to Nursery rooms and saw couples of ALL-BOYS newborn baby...soooo cuteee.....!!!
the nurse assured me tat she will send the baby in as he was currently having a hearing test..`ok' i said...
few minutes later the nurse arrived with the baby..."alamak!! saadiah anak kau cute nyer..!!"he was very fair baby..tembam nahh...he had saadiah's nose and lips...reddish spots on the fair skin made me remember my lil son son wen he was a newborn...now Saadiah had her wish comes true as she really wanted her baby to be as fair as HAziq and i think her baby is fairer!!:)
held him in my arms and immediately felt the 'semangat'(weight)..
he was crying a lil bit and i put him down next to Saadiah...she kissed him and talked to him and there he was quite again.."wow dah ader bonding between mak dan anaknya...dgr kata seh"..:D
it was time to go back anyway i left without having to worry saadiah din have anyone there cuz her hubby and MIL came...:)
so off we went took cab home after 2 hrs there and hubby had to go to work..."hmmm...mcm tk puas plak dukung baby..":)




Monday, June 28, 2004

burstday and birthday and anniversary

got messages fm didie telling me tat she was oredi in labour ward..she had been there since 5 plus in the morning...wen i finally got to talk to her was around 10am and she picked up sounding very low..told me tat she couldnt talk as she was in pain..she passed to Azman..talk to Azman for a while and encourage him to help didie putting on the Enthonox Gas...told Azman to update me again later..
i've tried calling didie for few times today..hoping there would be good news..up to three o'clock still nothing..check wif mom and still nothing..aiseyman..wat tlh happen didie...?me was very worried...cnt sit still..dah mcm aku yg nk terberanak plak...
didie finally called me 5pm plus and she tol me evrything...i pitied her soo much cuz i've been through b4...i hope she will be strong enough to pull this through...oh God have mercy on her..!!
doc came and didie had to hang up..
now while writing m still waiting for her calls...i kept calling also but the line was diverted and i assumed she mus have started the pushing process...hope her baby will be born soon..looking at the watch i dun think so it will be today..now its goin to be few more mins to 12 o'clock which will be another new day...
either day is fine as long as the baby is safe and healthy...!!




Sunday, June 27, 2004

morning i was awakened by my hubby voice telling me tat my dad tried to reach me..he handed me my h/p and there was few unread messages in my inbox..there was msgs from didie...with blurred visions i tried to read...didie told me tat she was on the way to KKH as she had bleedings earlier and the contraction she's having since last nite was not that far apart..it was like 5-10 minutes and my thot was oh my gosh she gonna have the baby today..!!boy..i was so happy for her as she need not to wait for the nxt few days to be induced...called her and she couldnt really talk as she oredi reached the hospital...
hubby went to werk and after half n hour later i dozed off only to be awakened again by ringing on my h/p..it was didie..she was progressing by 1cm and she decided to go back home and waited for the waterbag to burst..
later in the afternoon got a call fm my old friend Ayun...chatted for quite a while..
talked to didie again and i could see she was in real pain..she kept breathing in and out...she couldnt take it any longer and told me she would call me again later...we continued chatting on messenger b4 i had to get ready to go MIL place...
as usual had dinner over there and stayed around for few hours..
we took cab fm there..
finally at home i called didie again and she said she was still the same..in pain..told her to go to moms place tomorrow so at least got sumone to monitor her while azman at work...
later on gonna watch the czech vs denmark...see how..:)




Saturday, June 26, 2004

a boring saturday

hubby went home fm werk as usual and after had his meal at home we went out 4 Suntec..nowhere to go we did sum window shopping..haiz~ boring nyer...nothing good in sight same things like we saw a week ago...so we took a walk outside..baru nk rilek haziq pon dah merengek so nak tanak we had to make a move early that nite and headed straight home..
tonite will be a match between Holland vs Sweden...dunno if hubby gonna watch it cuz he will be doing OT tomorrow...guess he will be sleeping early again today...:)




Friday, June 25, 2004

2day not much happened...after Maghrib went out a while to Bedok Central to have sum times outside the house...
wen we get back home it was almost 10...so i turned the TV and watched this Bachelor Bob..
now hubby is watching the Encore telecast of Portugal vs England which match was the morning earlier...hmmm...later maybe will join him to watch another match between France and Greece...anyway tomorrow is Saturday and hubby working hours is short by an hour so he get back home fm werk around 4 plus instead of 5 o'clock every other day...
tomorrow had planned to go to MIL again as few days back we came and Father in law wasnt there..and i think he mus be missing haziq oredi..
wokey think dats all for today dear blog...=)




Thursday, June 24, 2004

aiseyman..nyer penat..

i've been having this lazy moods since Monday...dunno why..feeling extra tiredness in fact today i din cook .. thank God there were leftovers from yesterdays dishes... :smile:
after Maghrib went out to Shing Siong again...thot there wud be more stock of fishes today but not much varities..hmmm..very disappointing..so decided to buy the selar fish and stingray and managed to top up sum more stocks on barang dapur..
came back home and suddenly felt soo hungry...felt like cooking but it was oredi 10 @ nite so hubby said he wil go nxt street for Nasi Goreng bungkus...yehoo..tk yah masak nasi..but still i did sum cooking wif this Maggi Instant Sweet n Sour sauce and fry sum fish nuggets to go along wif d sauce..hehheh..*terok nya aku* :P
*looking at watch* hmm...almost 12..penat nya..*yawn again*




Wednesday, June 23, 2004

yipee....

went to MIL place today..had a nice dinner there...but had 2 fry the 'tempeh' myself cuz there were not much leftovers...Father in law was working nite shift so he wasnt home...
before dat went to Tampines Century Square to get the 'thing' hubby had promised few mths back for me...hehheh cnt tell wat it was..but its sumthing which was supposed to be a birthday present for me...
thanx hubby for remembering...=)
bought myself a pair of shoes which cost $13.90 at Metro..cheap cnt resist furthermore had been looking for a cheap comfortable shoes and 'no heels'... i need it so much since having a kid to bring along for outings needs me to be more flexible,and i simply cnt do that wif the 'high-heels'...hahhhah..:P
now back at home...later gonna put haziq to sleep...gonna have sum chats with hub before he also going to sleep..and me also thot of sleeping early today...=)
*yawn*




Tuesday, June 22, 2004

the 'kecohr' able day...

dis morning woke with itchiness of the mosqueito bites...ggrrr....geram cuz wat i worried most was my lil son..if i'm the one got bitten never mind lah cuz i noe wer to 'garuk'....if my lil son cian dia...dunno anything and all he knows is merengek lah...:(
these few days had been like mosquito's day at home..sana sini mesti kena gigit nyamuk...boring nyer...i jus applied my lil son with this mosqueito lotion protector..
yg boring nyer i only get to sleep 4 hours jer today...so mood ader sikit ngantuk..lol..
today as per normal day..nothing much to story about here..hubby came back at 5pm..the sleepiness was soo unbearable that i had to have sum nap and cancel the plan to go to Tampiness Mall today..slept @ about 6:30 pm tol hubby to wake me up half an hour later..he did but i was so tired i slept back..:P
wen i finally woke up fm the long nap it was oredi 10:20pm..my gosh..dahsyat nyer aku..cian hubby had to look after haziq..i started to feel guilty bout this...:(
so excited dat i finally woke up my haziq came to me and hubby showed off sum lil tricks he managed to teach him like counting with fingers..hehheh..soo cute..now haziq cn oredi said 'two' and 'four' fm his mouth which sounded quiet weird though he is yet to know how to show out his lil fingers..but i'm still so proud of him 'my lil darling baby'..mmmuaackkss...:)I realised now that only my hubby could teach him cuz so far he din quiet interested to learn with me..dunno why maybe its his preferences as a lil kid so i jus let it be...:)
hmmm...dunno wat 2 do later..:(




Monday, June 21, 2004

Monday....monday..

as usual comes the Monday...
woke up and felt relief that hubby working on morning shift today...
times flew very fast as 2 day i was rushing to cook on time but ended up with only a simple dish..again the miserable housewife life hit me today...the wondering what to cook...keep staring at the fridge on the stocks stored...hmmm...got 2 top up some later...closed back the upper fridge...arhh...the laziness strucked me again today...
sat down infront of the PC and started my messenger...chatted a while with Syazah...and back to the kitchen again...
spontaneously took out couples of egg and came the idea to cook this telur masak kicap...hahhahahaha...senang kan..tk yah pikir byk2...:D
the side dishes jus a deep fried stingray...hmmmm...:P
hubby came back late today as he had his soccer match today wif his colleagues...he went back and straight we went to the nearest market the 'shing siong'...but wen reached there wah...all the fishes was kept oredi..nothing left accept for kerisi kecil and those varieties of prawns...so i headed 2 buy sum veggies..and went up 2nd level 2 get haziq's neslac and his diapers..and not forgetting sum snacks to keep me alive at home..hehheh...
juz now..had a talk wif the uncle nxt door..hmmm...malas seh nk ckp..
org tua yg terlalu manjakan anak pompuan dia sampai jadi spoilt brat...yg heart pain kta2 neighbour..well dun assume i'm a busybody neighbour here ar...i 'm jus concerned cuz living next door 2 this family with a sickly old woman is really a test for me...she isn't really a burden to me..all i'm asking for is the doter to care for her..cnt expect me(wif this lil one) and other neighbour 2 care for her every now and then rite...kenapa lah jadi mcm nih..so had tried my best to get the uncle to get her doter to be more around lah...bcuz we as neighbour cnt do much really....hmmm..ntah lah ntah masuk ke tidak dlm kepala otak dia...my sympathy all goes to this makcik...:(
this i hope will be the 1st and last will i ever talk bout this with this pakcik..at the first place hubby din agree dat i wanna approach but i think i have the responsibily to say cuz i have been witnessing tooo many things oredi...cnt stand it...:((




Sunday, June 20, 2004

fathers day..

today was quite a rushing day for me...woke up in the morning getting ready 2 go to my parents house b4 before we went straight to the wedding ... thot today gonna bring the babycot to moms house but i dropped the idea cuz it'll be more rushing...hehhheh..but seriously i dun really need it at this moment at least a couple of years from now..hehheh..(potpone production until i think my lil son is big enuff to be a big brother..)
so off we go to moms place taking train like we usuallly did..opt to take cab for the come back trip..*matilah duit kalau pegi balik naik cab*:P
upon reaching i dashed 2 moms room looking for my old baju kurung which i left there..browsing through didie's old wardrobe and saw hers instead..tempted and tried on 2 see wether i cn fit into her clothes..but very disappointed cuz none looked good on me..mostly quite loose..uwahhhh...ape dahhh...
last2 i wore my old red baju kurung...jadi lah..:(
got a call from didie saying she'll be late..earlier syazah oredi said dat she too gonna be late so i told didie it was okay..;D
me..syazah and didie we reached CT majlis around 3:30..pengantin pon dah dok bersanding pat pelamin...after eat..we went 2 join the other forummers and introduced ourselves to each other..well everyone was great..had fun meeting them n would still consider seeing them again...we took sum pics and after dat we left the place...
didie went back to moms house and me and syazah we went 2 Jurong POint..went changing her doter's diapers..then off we go to Kiddy Palace..fm there we split ways...me bought a pants and a shirt for my lil son...was soo happy dat finally bought them as i've waited long enough for this 20% sale...
around 6 plus reached moms place and stayed there for a while...
went back home quite early today....took cab fm mom house and reached our place around 10pm...
hmmm......*yawn*..




Saturday, June 19, 2004

blogger...

today is Saturday...so bored cuz hub had 2 werk..biase ar shift ptg balik malam...nothing much happened 2 day..its like normal quite day at home wif my lil son...still browsing thru sum blogskins..dis is my probs lah being soo fickle-minded again...dah cantik2 blog masih nak carik lagi cantik...or mebe i'm oredi too addicted on dis new discovery on blogging stuffs..hehheh...
cian my son sampai boring ibu dia asyik mengadap depan PC..din pay much attention 2 him..:(
at the end of the day b4 putting him 2 sleep was this guilty feelings that have always overwhelmed me..dunno why..me kept thinking wether 2day have i been a good mom to him...what did he learn today...did i notice sumthing new about his development...hmmm?
tomorrow is the the day planned to go to one of the pkh forummer wedding...promised my 'blood sis' Syazah that i'll be going with her tomorrow with didie...
hmmm...rite now cnt sleep yet..i'm gonna do sum pics scanning again...yeah..:)




Friday, June 18, 2004

wat a day..

today was a very tiring day...woke up in the morning and getting ready to go SIR bulideing 2 make haziq passport..
here's the photo...cute tak?

after that went 2 plaza SIngapura Carrefour nk carik itu scanner HP which having sale for $149..its 3 in 1 scanner,copier,printer...sekali ape jadi ntah my hubby had dis second thot tk jadi nk belik...haiz~ nasib dat cashier girl boleh void cuz she had it scanned oredi..fuhh...kelakar lah laki aku nih...
so we kelam kabut gi Carrefour Suntec lak 2 buy dis Canon scanner..cuz pat Plaza s'pura was out of stock nasib baik masih ader stock itu pon tinggal 2 ajer..ape lagi grab satu ar...
looked at my watch and it was oredi late dat my hubby had 2 take MC for the day..since he only have 4 more days leave tis year..da tk sempat nk gi keje on time pon..
sampai rumah terus gi assemble the computer table we bought at suntec carrefour..cheap and small..i like it soo much esp. cuz it saves sum space for my 3 room house..finished assembled jer hubby terus kuar gi doctor 4 the MC..
wen he got home he got me new line and have the h/p 4 himself..its starhub line wif the incoming calls free..since we oredi disconnect the residential line and its necessary for me 2 have the line for any emergencies and cuz my mom dah bising dat she couldnt keep in touch wif me bla..bla..bla..:P
So at the end of the day here i was...wif my projects..hehheh..:P
scanned sum pics and was very happy dat finally had a scanner..hmm..previously the scanner we had is a very old and discontinued products...:(
my baby haziq 2day very the playful...he was like restless couldn't sleep asyik nak main jer...i was wondering wer he got those energy after a tiring outing day...he din get sum sleeps 2 day only for about 1 hr itu pon dlm pram...and upon reaching home @2:30pm until 11 plus baru lah tido...fuhh..penat...penat...dis is wat i cn describe the day 2day....




Thursday, June 17, 2004

strangers help...

i cnt believe it dat 2day a stranger made my day....:)
got sum probs on my PC juz now...trying like crazy~ 2 find the solutions until i went desperate at Melayu30 felt like screaming out loud...."hey!!!!any IT experts out there!!I seriously having dis probs on 'cookies'.."*ni ar si bodoh ni memandai gi dwld ads banner blocker...kan..kan..!!*
instead i was like begging on the main channel..anybody cn help on this IT stuff...PM me..finally got one kind hearted soul responded and after many hesitation 2 follow that fella's instruction i brace up myself to juz proceed..'proceed ida proceed jer..no harm'..:) and I did...and I did...and look...can update my blog oredi...yehooo!!!!bes nyer..macih lah byk2 sape tuh...ler~mak cnt expose lah saper nanti jadi 'berita sensasi plak'...:P
eh sampai lupa lak...nk kasik credits oso to my sis Varadidie...she helps me a lot in setting up dis blog..thanx to her lah...
hehheh my another 'blood'..syazah..wait ar til i learn more bout dis stuffs will try to share with you..sekali kau dah pandai dulu eh almaklumlah aku ni lembab sikit...:D
2molo hubby gaji so goin 2 buy 3 in 1 bla..bla..so cn scan sum interesting pics and upload here...
neway..erk..dats all for 2day...:)