Monday, September 06, 2004
Hubby 1st day reservist,not bad as he was released early today,came home at 5 and gosh i havent cook anything yet as i thot he wud be late like previous years.
Cooked a simple dish while hubby took a nap.
Earlier in the afternoon had chatted with a sister of mine over the phone.She was having tat down feelings letting go of her baby..Wat cn i say..I've not been there so i cudn't say anything..i cud feel her helplessness.If me,too wun be able to drag myself to work.i wud possibly quit if i were her,Tat's how bad i wud be if i were in her shoe.As 4 her life still has to go on and i was glad to hear her later at nite telling me tat she is adapting to the situation as she knows tat her precious one is in a safe hands..I know tat too,dun wery sis u are one strong woman,I know u would make it!
Tats the pros and cons being a working mother or a stay-at-home mother....nothing in this world has all the benefits evrybody cn enjoy. Like me being a housewife means a limited luxury,no shopping like it's nobody business,every single cents out counted.But i'm hoping to spend more time with my lil darling and get to see him growing up and learn every single details about him.
If i were to work *ouh how i missed those working days* tat will mean extra money$$$$ which i cud have for myself for savings or watever i wanna do with it and it means no guarantee tat i cud have quality times with my lil one and the impossibilities to bring back his childhood tat i might have missed.
So either way needs sacrifices.And both doesn't indicate wether a person is a good or a bad mother.
I dunno, but i hope wat i'm doing now is part of a career which i've opted for myself,even if its with no pay,no leave or no resignation.
|Madameaida blogged @ 11:49 PM|
About MadameAida
|27 years Old|
|Born in the morning of 18th April 1979|
|Arian|
|A little complicated yet a simple minded in person|
|Loves spending most of her times with the family|
|Stay at home mommy to one lovely boy|
|An Introvert but a flexible lady|
|Married since 5th January 2002 to the love of her life|
|A proud mother to Haziq Sabrin|
| A | Amazing |
| I | Irresistible |
| D | Dangerous |
| A | Ambivalent |
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Monday, September 06, 2004
Hubby 1st day reservist,not bad as he was released early today,came home at 5 and gosh i havent cook anything yet as i thot he wud be late like previous years.
Cooked a simple dish while hubby took a nap.
Earlier in the afternoon had chatted with a sister of mine over the phone.She was having tat down feelings letting go of her baby..Wat cn i say..I've not been there so i cudn't say anything..i cud feel her helplessness.If me,too wun be able to drag myself to work.i wud possibly quit if i were her,Tat's how bad i wud be if i were in her shoe.As 4 her life still has to go on and i was glad to hear her later at nite telling me tat she is adapting to the situation as she knows tat her precious one is in a safe hands..I know tat too,dun wery sis u are one strong woman,I know u would make it!
Tats the pros and cons being a working mother or a stay-at-home mother....nothing in this world has all the benefits evrybody cn enjoy. Like me being a housewife means a limited luxury,no shopping like it's nobody business,every single cents out counted.But i'm hoping to spend more time with my lil darling and get to see him growing up and learn every single details about him.
If i were to work *ouh how i missed those working days* tat will mean extra money$$$$ which i cud have for myself for savings or watever i wanna do with it and it means no guarantee tat i cud have quality times with my lil one and the impossibilities to bring back his childhood tat i might have missed.
So either way needs sacrifices.And both doesn't indicate wether a person is a good or a bad mother.
I dunno, but i hope wat i'm doing now is part of a career which i've opted for myself,even if its with no pay,no leave or no resignation.
|Madameaida blogged @ 11:49 PM|
