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Monday, December 05, 2005

Few months back,I was a worried mother.

It started when my darling Haziq was not eating well like he used to,and he was on milk most of the times,he would only want to eat those instant maggi and I considered myself lucky when there were times he eat the cereal.
This went on and on for many months.

He refused to feed on rice,egg,veggies,and all those food that me and hubby usually eat.
Even if we brought him over to any fast food restaurant,nanti yg mkn kiter,as for Haziq mcmane punya lapar pon he won't touch or eat that food be it fries or mashed potatoes ke,he just won't.

I've tried bread and Haziq would run away at the sight of it. I even gave him those multi Vit with Lysine,as according to the pharmacist Lysine is an appetite booster. But It didn't work.

When I see other kids who takes all kind of foods I was so full of envy!
I was almost declaring myself as a bad mother,reasons was for not introducing him with varieties of food from an early age.

People kept accusing me for being such a 'lokek' mother. And there were many other comments..bla bla bla. But I'm very lucky that hubby was there to support me.
Cuz he knows everything. Even my hubby tried and he too got frustrated in the end.

We've tried forcing him to eat and tat worsened everything,so in the end we juz let him be.
He would have some biscuits and and the maggis for meals.

But we never gave up hope,and willing to spend extra money as we were deciding to change his Neslac milk to Pediasure.
Heard its good for those kiddos who are fussy with foods.

It was then on one of the days during Syawal that Haziq fall sick with stomach flu.
We had to wait,not to give the pediasure to him yet and continue with the Neslac cuz at that point of time he was vomitting,so I see no use.

He lost weight after that.

But miracle did happen. Now I begin to feel that maybe those sickness and vomittings he had was actually a blessing in disguise!!

Haziq was back on eating rice,eggs,fishes,veggies and those breads again!!!

Can U imagine how happy I was ??!

Now he got soo much appetites that he kept asking me this...in his toddler way of talks,
"abuu...apar.." which means "ibu...lapar"
"mashak elor.." which means "masak telor" for him.

And he would ask for slices of bread coated with Nutella spread few times a day!!
And besides that I would gladly feed his curious mind too before filling up his stomach! hahaha!
Yer lah budak2 nih kan..paham2 ajer lah!
He actually loves to see me cooking his favourite ayam goreng or ikan goreng while
he sits on the cabinet. Kadang2 kalau dia hepi sangat he would rhyme away..ntah lagu aper gue tak tau!!

So,I totally drop the idea to get the Pediasure for him!!
Dah tak payah belik! So I just stick to Neslac now.

But really I find that Haziq,is really a full-of-surprise little boy since he was a little baby.
I couldn't count how many times he made us worried but in the end he rewards us big in return!! *syukur*

When kids around his age starts talking and he didn't. I received many comments,comparisons made by some people who thought I didn't talk enough to him and bla bla bla..
Confirm darah up tau kena komen macam2..

But I patiently wait for the day to come,cuz I believe that Haziq,like every other children is unique and besides that,he don't have any hearing problems and he can understand things spoken to him and carried out some instructions himself. He gets along very well with other children too.

Now I must say that the one quote saying 'children dun really talk until he's 3'
is amazingly true!! And more,I noticed that he no longer possesive over his toys,and I even heard him said this to one of my nephew.."share share"
kekeke...

And now I felt so blessed..syukur yg amat sangat!!
Thank you Allah for the blessings and all..
To haziq..
Ibu and Ayah luv you soo much honey!!

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